Saturday, June 15, 2013

...Heading West


I’m going to take a tactical pause here for a few weeks.  You see, I’m packing up the house, closing out my SIPR and SOIS accounts, and heading west.  Westward Ho.  Go West Young Man (or woman).  West SIDE! 

Its hard to leave this place.  I always pictured the day I left The South:  80 mph and not looking back.  But that’s not the case.  I’m not 100% in love with Fayetteville, North Carolina…not even close; my love probably hovers around 15%, slightly above my love for Sumter, SC but well below my love for Fort Walton Beach, FL.  However, I am a true convert to this particular place I work, the people I work with, and the things we accomplish.  Its hard leaving but I won’t get in to that now (we’ll save that for later).  Because what makes leaving this place much (MUCH!) easier is what I’ve got to look forward to:  A cross-country road trip with mi madre, an 18-month sabbatical to Monterey, California, and life back on the west coast.  The only thing I can say is whoot-whoot!

So I’m taking a tactical pause while we make the Great American Road Trip to the Best Coast.  But all is not lost Wino Lovers!  Feel free to follow us on:  http://dispatches-from-the-road.blogspot.com/


Thursday, June 13, 2013

...My Favorite Teacher

My favorite teacher, Mr Waldenberg, is retiring soon and his family asked if anyone had anything they wanted to say at the retirement.  Of course I do (do I ever miss an opportunity to expound on a topic?  The correct answer is no).  Below is a small dissertation submitted to Mr Waldenberg for his review (absolutely my favorite teacher).

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We all have those teachers throughout our lives that impact us in some way.  We all have that one teacher that when you look back on your time in school they are the one you remember.  Mr Waldenberg was that teacher for me. I was lucky enough to get him two years in a row (no, I did not fail his class, I was a straight-A student thank you very much). He had moved from teaching 5th grade to teaching 6th grade at the same time my class moved from 5th to 6th (coincidentally it was also when Kellye, a great friend of mine but who also happened to be his pre-teen daughter, moved from 5th grade to 6th grade.  I think it was a deal brokered in the teachers lounge to spare the rest of the faculty). The discussions on the playground those first few days of school in 6th grade centered around "What?! You've got Mr Waldenberg again?! That's not fair!" So yes, I was one of the lucky few who got him two years.

Looking back on his classes I remember a lot of things...the commercials we created, the archeological projects in his science lab, the obstacle courses in his gym class.  He made school fun and he made you laugh. But most importantly, he challenged you, he brought you out of your comfort zone, he made you get involved in your own learning and taught you that learning is not just in the books...its all around us. Its outside along the river discussing how plants grow, its on the bike rack learning how gears worked, its going home at night watching TV but "pay attention to the commercials because tomorrow we're going to talk about advertising".  Mr Waldenberg taught you that the opportunity to learn is all around you, just go out and explore.

Make it fun, make it a challenge, and make it interesting. Looking back, that's how I remember his style.

I was the shy kid in class. I hated speaking in front of a group. Hat-Ed-It. I would mumble and look down at my feet and pray that a volcano would erupt. Or the river would flood. Or any other kind of man made and/or natural disaster would strike, saving me from getting up in front of my classmates.  There was nothing quite as mortifying to a shy kid than this. But he made us do it...and I did it (I didn't really have a choice…Straight-A student), again and again and again, until I realized all my friends were not going to suddenly turn into zombies and eat me. And after a while it actually became fun.  Because he made it fun. He challenged you. And he made it interesting.

20+ years later I speak in front of a lot of people a lot of the time. I run meetings. I plan nationally significant “things”. I brief 3- and 4- star general officers.  All things a shy farm kid from Ft Benton MT would never have dreamed existed.  And every once in a while I stop and take stock of where I am and look at the path of how I got here; there are certain people who show up along that road.  Mr Waldenberg is one of those people on my road to where I am. The foundation he laid for not only me but countless other kids has made us who we are and taught us some invaluable lessons:  have fun, challenge yourself, find something that interests you, and if you're speaking in front of a group people, odds are they will not spontaneously turn in to zombies and eat you.

Mr Waldenberg, congrats on your retirement. You have impacted countless people throughout your years of teaching in ways we cannot begin to convey to you. Be proud of what you've done...this world needs more teachers like you.